Today…yet another piece of BLOG gets added to the cyber world. This blog has been in the waiting as I was not sure what it would be about & even today that holds true. My first thought was of course – a blog should be about my everyday life and the shit that I make happen and go through. Nahhh…I thought that would be too boring, so then I decided to write about life in general and try being a ‘lil philosophical. That sounded interesting but wondered if I could sustain writing on such a topic. Next idea that came was writing about general stuff – stuff which I read and follow religiously – politics, cricket, business, etc. I asked my self a question – when there are so many newspapers available with so many so called “experts” ranting about everything from the “progress” under the Congress regime to the chances of
So I being a total Bombayite – love the Bhelpuri – so my blog is a mix of everything that I have mentioned about and probably even more. So that explains the title of my blog – “rantings” and of course these are gonna be pure mental “torture”.
Well so my first blog comes at a time when I am just about to graduate from B-school. And so this first blog goes out to these last 2 years. Frankly, I rate these two years as a total sheer success or as a marketer would put if…VFM. For in these two years I have learnt so many things which I never knew I could be or do. I have learnt about making friends and figuring out who are just acquaintances and who are to be with you for life. School life had been a bitter experience and gave me this inferiority complex which took me all of 5 years of college life and more to shrug off. Welingkar has been an environment where I felt that I am on an equal footing with everyone and could be comfortable being myself. \ I saw this is an opportunity to make friends – and I leapt at it. Probably like someone who hasn’t had food for days and when suddenly its available, he overeats and causes himself an stomach upset – similar was the case for me. For I tried to make as many friends as I could and now that I think of it, many people just misunderstand me for this reason. For I couldn’t possibly sustain so many friends at a time and let go many, consciously and sub- consciously.
But no regrets, for the few friends which I have now are all literally distilled. And these friends are the reason that Welingkar has been a dream ride, for at every moment there was someone new I was discovering and relating to. The way the last two years have happened were great and wouldn’t want them to change a bit. Of course, there have been some bitter instances and some friends which I think would last the distance but which just fizzled out. But who wants to talk about these.
This is a time to rejoice and recollect the happy memories, the trips, the outbounds, the drunken misadventures(literally), projects at crazy hours of the night, lectures with IP messengers, unemployed people talking their heart out after a rejected interview…man have these days have been fun or what. From the first day I could feel a change –been a little more confident about myself and this has grown over a period of time. I have learnt about following and leading, about connecting with people at more than just surface level, and that amazing feeling that there are people apart from your family who believe in you.
2005 – 2007…what a journey!
10 comments:
kavin!! good job!! strange... it makes u happy and sad at the same time..n most of all it forces u down the memorary lane..most of ur thoughts ring true...n after u done readin it doesnt fail to put a smile on ur face n a lil churn in ur stomach..!!
great gng ma friend..n yet another reason to be proud of u!! :D
Congratulations on your brand new blog Kavs...
And its not tortuous... not yet, at least... haha...
Keep it going... I'm sure this will hone your craft well for the book(s) that I am sure you will write some day...
God Bless
wel..readin thru it was seriously like a trip down memory lane..few things jus soooooo stnd true yaa..n its a mixed bag of emotions..although heavily skewed on the positive ones :)...liked it a lot..lukin fwd to read more stuf frm u...wish u superluck alwayz!! :)
Kavz..completely agree with your thought on friends fizzling out. Infact im sure that merely 6 months post college almost 98% of our friends will be reduced to mere acquaintances. Hope to find you in the other 2% then MTE. Btw..im very curious to know abt that some1 new who ure currently into "discovering and relating to"??? STOP BLUSHING!!!!!!
Hey KAVITY, nice to read abt ur thoughts man. ur thought on friends is really very true. I ll repeat the statement wht Ashwal stated, wil like to be in ur 2% of the frnds list......
BEST LUCK MAN!!!!1, hope to see u in ur Samudra Mahal Man soon.
Always ur frnd
Ashish A
hey kavin,
Congratulations for ur blog dude!! whenever i see u, i really feel proud of u for the way u hv utilised the time at welingkar .. keep it going..
as far as friends are concerned the true ones will surely stand by u in thick n thin(by now u must hv figured that out 2)...
Best wishes and Prayers
Poonam
well kavz..i am sure in these 2 years u gave many others an inferiority complex..hehe..and i think more than being in that 2 %..i would like you to make efforts to increase it to 3%..then it would be more fun being in it..:) and the word torture does not fit the title..i felt it ended too soon..wanted more to read and remember..!!!..so thats the hint for you to write the next one...
Hey Kavin,
Wonderful to read your blog ... and like the others i agree its not tortorous ( but consistency has been lil problem with u...lol) and i guess the timing of the blog is also right ..( u know what an hinting at ...lol)
Could visualise myself thru each of those incidents u mentioned. Lucky to have a friend like you and looking forward to ur next post.
Luv,
Me
Hey Kavin,
I wonder what It will be like when we leave B-school ......It seems so unreal that 1 year is already up...seems just like yesterday....got to have some drunken (mis) adventures soon....lol.....hmmmm your blog seems to be giving us juniors some rather naughty ideas.....anyways good going!!!!!!!
Very Intersting dude..i mean no one else can relate to your journey at welingkar as much as i can...i had a similar past struggling to make friends easily and maintaining them. But just like u , i too have made amazing friends which i hope to maintain for atleast a LIFETIME..u r certainly one of them...
Have learnt a lot from you over these 2 yrs...hope to use them some whr down the life..wish u all the happiness in life and definitly hope to keep in touch with u....for a very long time
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